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Lesson 255 - Sensitivity Training Money (1)

作者:VOA礼节美语 发布日期:6-27-2013

晚宴结束,Jason跟同事Harold一起往外走。Jason说:

Jason: That was a lovely party, wasn't it?

Harold: Yes, it was. The food was pretty good, too.

J: I was a little puzzled about something, though.

H: What was that?

J: At one point in our conversation, Mr. Jones gave me a really funny look...it was almost like I'd broken some sort of a rule.

H: Oh, yes...well you did ask him how much he paid for his apartment.

J: And? What's wrong with asking someone how much they paid for a piece of property? Back in China everybody talks about buying and selling apartments.

Jason是从中国来的,在晚会上问东道主Mr. Jones公寓是多少钱买的。Mr. Jones gave me a really funny look. Mr. Jones看他的表情有些奇怪,好象他这样问犯了什么大忌。A funny look意思是说不清楚的奇怪表情。Jason说,在中国,大家见面就是谈房子,因此他不懂,What's wrong with asking someone how much they paid for a piece of property? 问别人买房子花了多少钱有什么不妥呢?Harold解释说:

H: Yeah, I know....but in many Western societies, talking about money in public is a faux pas.

J: What's a faux pas?

H: It's a French term that means a social blunder. Questions like that are considered a little bit impolite.

J: Really? I had no idea. Back in China, it's not generally a problem to ask about how much something costs.

H: I know you meant no offense. When I was assigned to Guangzhou for 6 months, people frequently ask me how much my monthly salary is.

Harold解释说,在很多西方国家,公开谈钱是faux pas, faux pas is spelled f-a-u-x, faux and pas p-a-s, pas, faux pas也就是social blunder在社交上忌讳做的事,属于失礼的行为。Jason听了觉得很出乎意料,说自己完全不知情,I had no idea. 因为在中国,询问财物的价钱完全不是问题。Harold说,I know you meant no offense. 我知道你不是故意冒犯Mr. Jones. Harold说自己派驻广州半年时,就经常有人问他每个月的工资是多少。Jason说:

J: That's funny, because Western society seems so open. People talk about all kinds of private things that we wouldn't bring up in China. But money is a no-no, huh?

H: If your Western friend buys something for a really good price, he or she might mention it to you by saying something like, "Take a look at this camera that I got on sale for only $99 dollars." But unless the person is a close friend, we almost never ask how much something costs.

J: So, do you avoid talking about money so that people with less money don't feel bad?

Jason觉得很有意思的是,西方社会如此开放,对很多中国不敢涉猎的私人问题都可以拿到台面上来说,但是money is a no-no. 钱的问题却是个禁区。no-no两个no连在一起,中间加个连接线,是一种非正式用法,名词,意思是不可以,不被接受的事情。西方人回避谈钱,是因为怕刺激没钱的人吗?我们下次继续听。

网友的学习评论(9条):
作者:peter
7-5-2013 0:10:31
western people are so open that they can talk about all kinds of private things , but money is a no-no, only close friends ask how much something costs.
7-5-2013 16:15:16
Becanse every country have different culture, so every country's people have different sensitivity conversation. And we need to repect each other's culture.
作者:Stu.Mei
7-26-2013 8:18:20
different culture
作者:文文
8-4-2013 9:23:51
Study
作者:Julia
8-29-2013 8:52:48
That's funny. Western society seems so open, people talk about all kinds of private things, but money is no-no, huh?
作者:Julia
8-29-2013 8:53:52
what's the matter about asking people how much they paid for a piece of property?
作者:Julia
8-29-2013 8:55:11
Can I use "what's the matter about" instead of "what's wrong with"?
作者:Rachel
7-11-2014 22:57:0
When I had lunch with my boss, she gave me a really funny look; faux pas; social blunder; What's the problem with asking someone how much they paid for a piece of property; Money is a no-no; I know you meant no offense.
作者:Emily SAJ
9-29-2014 15:15:9
Different culture is leading to different conversition content, westerns normally just talk about weather and children, i can't understand what will continue to talk after these unsensitive topic?
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